Life & Living as Malaysian.

to all fair weather friends !. May I ?.......since the election is just around the corner !

,,,if one were to see or realise that life & living in Malaysia as a marriage, it would indeed not need to be such a struggle. By continuing to recognize and explore our differences we will discover many new ways to improve all our relationships. You will be amazed to learn that the differences were not only normal but were to be expected. One only need to fell in love again with her plus btw malaysian ??. This relationship can miraculously changed. No longer heading for a DIVORCE, you will look forward to sharing the rest of your/our lives together. This is the greatest gift both/all can ever receive. To love each other again !. Between you and the nation/state and all of us malaysian together… yaa ??.
,,,many important advances have been made, many books/comments are one-sided rightly or wrongly and unfortunately reinforce mistrust and resentment towards each other. One side is generally viewed as being victimized by the other. Indeed, a definitive guide was/is still needed for understanding/appreciating how healthy for both to be different. But dont be manipulated by them !
,,,to improve relationship between you, me and others it is necessary to creat an understanding of our differences that raises self-esteem and personal dignity while inspiring mutual trust, personal responsibility, increased cooperation and indeed GREATER love. Plus to focus on the BIG picture, please don’t be self-centred or be selfish only to oneself.
,,,YES, by just opening the heart results in greater forgiveness and increased motivation to give and receive love and support.
,,,Just with this simple awareness, you and others will, I sincerely hope and pray, go beyond it and continue to develop ways in which you/all of us can relate lovingly to be a Malaysian in Malaysia or who/where/whatever!!….sure, and certainly the journey of creating a loving relationship can be rocky at times. BUT remember “Problems” are inevitable !!..but these problems either can be sources of resentment and rejection or can be OPPORTUNITIES for deepening intimacy and increasing love, caring and TRUST.
,,,however please be aware too, for the need for therapy and professional counseling for troubled relationships or survivors of a dysfunctional family. Even healthy individuals may need therapy or counseling at challenging times. Am sure our good dr will endorse this too!.
,,,Its such a CHALLENGING time globally right now too, yaa !!. So my fair weather friends lets fly in all weathers and ride the storms to return/land safely back on dry ground to our beloved MALAYSIA.

Note; forgive me for being an ex-chopper head, I have to relate things from the air side of it ! hahhaha. …plus spinning rotors in my heli brains.