,,,lest we forget, we malaysians are a bunch of very sensitive creatures, easily slighted and offended. When hurt we are resentful, when happy we radiate joy. Unpleasant people must therefore be properly understood and at times forgiven too. Just be kind to them poor lost souls, they are fighting life's tough battles.
,,,A person most likely become what he is expected to be. His/Her development responds to expectation and treatment from others. Confidence and self image are continuously being shape since infancy. If one is groomlike a champion, he/she will perform well, but if you repeatedly tellhim/her is an idiot, he/she will soon believe it !...... its the Pygmalion effect !.
,,,In life and living, we will never achieve much without the help and support of others. Life is short, strive to make others and oneself happy. When you make others happy, you feel happy too. Millions of lives sink into failure and sadness, all because peopleare waiting for the world to change towards them, without wanting to change themselves.
,,,in life you get something in return for what you put in, otherwise you get nothing for nothing !.
"treat people as if thay were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being ".....its no bloody big secret to it !
